When you find out ur friend is gay

Let them explain what their sexuality means to them, and how they define it. If someone close to you comes out as transgender, you may feel unsure about how you feel about it or how to respond. Remember if you have a relationship with this person either due to common interests, or through blood — why this would change just because the gender they were assigned with at birth is different to the gender they are?

How Do I Help My Gay Friend?

Your efforts to learn and understand will mean a lot to your friend. Cultivate relationships in groups. Unhealthy relationships are born in a one-on-one, exclusive, context. Seek to bring others into the friendship and request that your accountability relationship include at least one other person.

How to Tell If Your Friend Is Gay: Signs and What to Do

Yet I still felt threatened myself. Something nagged deep inside that if I thought or talked about it too much, this gayness might spread to me too, or scarier, expose something already there. But if I wanted to keep my friend, however nervous I was. I had to face such possibilities.

If Someone Comes Out to You

Maybe, just maybe I can suggest something helpful. So I want to try everything possible to make this work. My boyfriend works, and has totally changed so that he can keep us as his family. I just do not know the right way to go about this. Thank you for your perspective and guidance!