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Especially in such a conservative country like Singapore, many feel afraid of facing disapproval and rejection. Lemon8 user, junchenchew , shared a personal experience where her partner came out as gay to her. Navigating through her confusion, heartbreak and eventual acceptance, she also included tips for others who are going through the same experience as her.
Is Your Spouse Gay or Bisexual?
Unless your mate shares their sexual orientation with you, there is no way for you to know for sure. So-called "signs" that your spouse might be gay, such as the way they dress, talk, walk, or look, are not indications of sexual orientation. Neither are behaviors such as a preference for anal sex or other sexual practices , erectile dysfunction, watching porn , homophobic behavior, being evasive or secretive, or hanging out with friends of the same sex.
Why we need more gender-neutral words Should six-way marriage be legal? Gay or not, our desires are oriented and re-oriented throughout our lives Credit: Ignacio Lehmann. Ignacio Lehamann. Early gay rights activists compared sexuality to religion - a crucial part of our life that we should be free to practise however we like Credit: Ignacio Lehamann.
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