I think i might be gay for my best friend

Yet I still felt threatened myself. Something nagged deep inside that if I thought or talked about it too much, this gayness might spread to me too, or scarier, expose something already there. But if I wanted to keep my friend, however nervous I was. I had to face such possibilities.

I am not your Gay Best Friend

So, at least we are evolving, you know? They were defining me by my sexuality. But in general, you will be defined by your sexuality more than a straight person. It's the last thing you want to talk about. He treats me as Daf, you know, and I love that. BBC Wales.

When Your Best Friend Tells You He's Gay

Get him on a gay dating app like Grindr, Scruff, Squirt or the like. Since you and your husband are open-minded, why not take him to a gay bar where the chances of him finding someone for himself are increased. If he suffers from fluctuating confidence, then express more confidence in him, in his looks, in his dress sense, in his suitability to find his soulmate.

Does that make sense? It's great that you want to help him figure out his identity, but ultimately neither you nor I nor anybody else can figure that out for him. The only person who can figure out how he identifies in terms of his sexual orientation is him.